tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7397310366599799501.post7571396791225068255..comments2023-06-30T10:53:03.530-05:00Comments on Eli's Valley: A muddled messJenniferhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06459902493505613869noreply@blogger.comBlogger5125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7397310366599799501.post-52217598074275706712010-04-29T22:11:33.097-05:002010-04-29T22:11:33.097-05:00All of your feelings are COMPLETELY normal. If no...All of your feelings are COMPLETELY normal. If not, I'm not normal either so at least you're not alone! "The chase" is definitely something I can relate to and I still feel that way some days. Life will get ahead of you for awhile still. I haven't found a way to make it better. It's one of those sucky things we just have to "live" through. You're missing a piece of yourself, and you always will be missing that piece, so don't beat yourself up over not feeling the way you think you should feel. It's hard to learn to live when one of your legs has been knocked out from under you. You're in my thoughts and prayers always.Brittanyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13643132692882788463noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7397310366599799501.post-57787184118117943772010-04-29T12:08:30.693-05:002010-04-29T12:08:30.693-05:00It's not a muddled mess.......just normal feel...It's not a muddled mess.......just normal feelings. Jen, you will get through this, your family will get through this. Time will make things easier. You will never loose that void or sense of grief, or at least I haven't yet, but I promise it will get better. I still have days where Brandon is on my mind a lot, and then I have days where he doesn't consume my thoughts. I think about him everyday. And I crave him when I do think about him. I miss him so much. I have a picture of Brax and Dent in my office standing on the beach holding hands. I often look at it and can see Brandon standing there, too. What makes it so ironic is that a friend walked in the other day and said, "Everytime I see that picture, it seems like your other baby is missing in it." We have to hold on to the fact that our babies are at perfect peace, and they will NEVER know the sorrows or trials we experience here. We can also hold on to the fact that we will see them again someday.......we are just separated for a little bit. Right now time is not your friend, and some days it is not mine either. Your mom, and Cricket and even Mrs. Sheila can verify this....I suppose it all comes down to one question.......WHY??????? We won't know the answer here, and I don't think it will even matter when we get "there". I love you lots.....and we will get together soon......<br /><br />AmyAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7397310366599799501.post-39419539530141923052010-04-29T06:51:18.291-05:002010-04-29T06:51:18.291-05:00"Broken" is a good way to describe what ..."Broken" is a good way to describe what we've been through. I will begin to pray that God will give you the answers you need. <br /><br />-CarrieCarriehttp://kaileerose.weebly.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7397310366599799501.post-61806266874877011092010-04-28T17:14:25.754-05:002010-04-28T17:14:25.754-05:00I read your blog at every update. I am so sorry, I...I read your blog at every update. I am so sorry, I so wish I could take away your sorrow. I will continue to keep you in my prayers.The Reeves Familyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18270001925513636817noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7397310366599799501.post-84964598530502510412010-04-28T14:42:44.599-05:002010-04-28T14:42:44.599-05:00So sorry, Jennifer. Praying for you---He knows wha...So sorry, Jennifer. Praying for you---He knows what you nedd. xxxKaty Larsenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14147665316890835738noreply@blogger.com